1. Ladies, you have to values yourself. A woman who knows her worth will not settle for anything less than what she wants out of life. When you value yourself you take everything that’s around you including people, relationships, job, other people’s energy very important. If she’s not getting what she want out of the situation. She’s jumping on the first train smoking. She’s willing to leave at any cost and she will remove herself from a toxic person or thing at anytime.

2. Her goals and plan is very important and clear. She knows just where she’s going and how to get there. Failure is not an option.

3. Who are you judging? She’s not afraid to be judge. Only God can judge her. Your opinion or concerns is not her problem.

4. I got you, Sis!! You must build people up especially other woman and bring them with you. Building confidence and self-esteem in others is a must.

5. NO!!! She’s ok with telling people “NO”. It’s ok to say no when you don’t have the time, you feel it will cause you stress, or you just don’t want to do it. Just say no.

6. Self-Care! Self-Care is very important and she understands that. Please pay attention to her mental, physical, and emotional health. Take some time to go to the spa, have a “me” day, or do something you really enjoy and don’t get to do often. Use your PTO days at work…let someone else deal with it. Just don’t feel guilty for doing so.

7. Faith over fear! Fear of failing, fear of being uncomfortable, fear of judgment, or the fear of success. Whatever it may be…don’t let fear stop you. You have to have faith over fear. Let your faith lead you to place you thought you could never be or accomplish.

8. Why compare? Do not feel the need to compare yourself to the next person or tear others down. Something you have to stay off of social media. Social media can be a bad thing sometimes but you must learn to not compare yourself to others. You must understand that everybody takes a different path to success. We need to lift each other up and lend a hand instead of bashing each other and tearing each other down.

9. Think positive! This is hard for me. I seem to always think about the negative first. Don’t misunderstanding what I’m saying because I’m not a negative person. At times I have to pray because I think about every bad thing that can happen. With practice I’m getting better with this one because one thing for sure…Prayer works! The positive always outweigh the bad.

10. There is always room for improvement. It’s ok to be a work in progress. We are not in a race. Good things always take time. Train up to get to where you are going. Improvement means growth. Strive each day and set goals. The desire, drive, and determination will help you advance to the next level.

Wishing you confidence, happiness, and BLING